Thursday, September 21, 2006

Reality-Based Values

SteveG also notes something very interesting:
It is nothing short of despicable to hide bigotry behind the fig leaf of the language of morality. "Feminism is destroying the family." "We oppose gay adoption because we care about children." The worst part of it is that the stance has been universally picked up by the media. To stand up for the rights of people and demand equal treatment has somehow become characterized as standing against morality.

But then there's the real world...

Researchers Dana Shawn Matta and Karman Knudson-Martin have a study out in the journal Family Process entitled "Father Responsivity: Couple Processes and the Coconstruction of Fatherhood" in which they look at fathers' responsiveness to their children, how much of an active part of their lives they are, how seriously they take their parenting role. What they find is either fascinating or banal based upon whether or not you actually live in the reality-based community. It turns out that across the board, regardless of socio-economic, racial, or geographic factors, there was a correlation in their sample between how connected a man is with his children and his views on gender roles.

Those husbands who were the most responsive to their children also were the ones who believed most strongly in gender equity in terms of division of household labor, who most valued the work of their wives, who were the most attuned to their own emotions and those of their wife and kids, and who were the most likely to make choices about work that privileged their family....

2 comments:

MT said...

Stands to reason, but the politically super-charged interpretation that one pair of social scientists draw from their own small survey is not the song of the fat lady. Assuming that's a random pair, but it's hard to know whether a reference has been selected at random. I like to stack up at least a couple dozen of such studies pro and con and see which weighs more on average.

helmut said...

Your right about surveys in general. But it's always fun to tweak the holier-than-thous.